Thanks to everyone who has been praying for our friends down south, (the two boys and their drug addict mom) Right now, they're living with their mom and her boyfriend in an apartment, so at least they're in a stable place for now. The dad has not made moves right now to have the boys removed because in the
governments eyes they're "safe" and he thinks the mom would hide the boys from him if he tried to take them, because she benefits from child support.
Thankfully the mom's own family (her 2 other children in their late 20's, and her sister) are on the dad's side, which would help him to win a court case if it ever comes to that. The boys older brother is ready to go down and take the boys from her now, but the dad has asked him to please refrain from that action for now, as it would do more harm than good.
So things are "
ok" for now, and we got to spend an afternoon with the two boys a week or so ago.
They seem to be
ok emotionally, but the younger one (11 yrs.) who usually stiffens up a bit bit when I give him a one-arm-hug (I hug him anyway :-) let me hug him last time.
It's hard to read the faces of two little boys who have the years of pain of watching their mom go through boyfriend after boyfriend, and move from place to place etched on their faces.
Drugs,
alcohol, boyfriends, live-ins. Is this really what our
government considers a safe
environment? It's a sad reality.
But they really do seem to be doing pretty well, and they're still smiling, something we're grateful for.
Thank you again for your prayers, keep it up.
Love,
Emily
One of the most important things in life, is to learn how to give out love, and how to let it in.~Anonymous